Wednesday, January 8, 2014

2013 Reading

In 2012, I resolved to read 20 books.  I ended up finishing only 19, but it totaled out at about 4000 pages of nonfiction and 3300 pages of fiction. 

So in 2013, rather than counting the number of books, I decided to try to count pages.  My goal was 7500 pages and at least 50% nonfiction.

How did I do?  Well, counting as complete the two books at the end of this list that are more than half-way finished, I read a total of 6825 pages, which broke down into 3800 pages of nonfiction and 3025 pages of fiction.  It was a total of 18 books (11 nonfiction, 7 fiction). 

I'm okay with falling short of my goal.  One of the books listed below (Joseph Anton) pretty much sucked all the reading life out of me for a while.  And I met my goal for reading nonfiction, which I think was important. 

Book of the year for me was Lean In (review below). 

Here's what I read in 2013 and my thoughts:

Liberty Defined: 50 Essential Issues That Affect Our Freedom by Ron Paul.  Nonfiction, about 350 pages.  Ugh.  An alphabetical list of Ron Paul's thoughts on pretty much everything.  Abortion, bipartisanship, campaign finance reform, etc.  If you think, oh, 26 topics, that won't be so bad, let me add that there were sometimes multiple topics for a single letter.  So C was not just campaign finance reform, but also capital punishment.  I solely read this because my husband read it, thought parts of it were interesting, and wanted me to read it so we could discuss.  I have less time to read in 2013, and I likely shouldn't have had this book on the list based on that "reason to read."  Parts of it were definitely interesting, and I couldn't agree with him more, but a vast majority of it was also so contrary to my opinion (I'm actually less of a libertarian than I would have guessed).  Different viewpoints are always good I suppose.  I do feel like I'm smarter for having read it, which is one of my objectives in reading.  Not sure why but I got it in my head that it would be funny if the book ended with an entry under Z for zombies, but instead he went out on Zionism.   Bummer.  That was actually a big let-down when I somehow let myself get psyched up about zombies. 

Hearts in Atlantis by Stephen King.  Fiction, 650 pages.  Not what I expected. I hadn't read any Stephen King in a long time, but I loved his books pre-college. This one, not so much. It was an odd story that started in the 60s with a group of three friends and then glimpses of their lives and overlapping connections over the rest of their lives.  Maybe I haven't read enough Stephen King, but this wasn't what I expected as typical Stephen King, and I didn't like it that much. 

The Black Box by Michael Connelly.  Fiction, about 425 pages.  I primarily read Michael Connelly books because he is by far my husband's favorite author.  I enjoy them a lot as well, and this one was no exception.  This one is about a Danish reporter killed during the LA riots in 1992, and her murder remains unsolved.  20 years later, the LAPD wants to reexamine the open homicides from the riots, including this one, and see if some of them can be closed, not including this one. 

Thunderstruck by Eric Larson. Nonfiction, about 475 pages. About a murder in England in the early 1900s committed apparently by Hawley Crippen, and the invention and development of wireless telegraphy by Guglielmo Marconi.   I'm not sure why the author's name didn't register for me on this one, but it is the same author who wrote Devil in the White City, about some murders that happened during the Chicago World's Fair in 1904.  It even mentions that on the front cover.  But you know, I missed it.  It wasn't until I was about halfway through that I thought the tone sounded familiar and made the connection.  I preferred Devil in the White City, which I had to read for book club.  This one was okay, but not spectacular. 

Squirrel Seeks Chipmunk by David Sedaris. Fiction, about 175 pages (but small ones). A few chuckles but not my favorite by him.  Generally, a bunch of very short stories about animals who exhibit human personality characteristics.  The title story is about a chipmunk dating a squirrel and how the chipmunk's family objects.  There's one about a dog who is married to another dog in the same household, but is taken by the owner for breeding and reasons that it's work, not adultery, but then finds a dog that he likes and therefore "works" extra hard.  Since most the stories seem to have some moral, I found many to be fairly depressing.  Overall, fairly unimpressive, not recommended.

The Lost and Forgotten Languages of Shanghai by Ruiyan Xu.   Fiction, about 350 pages.  This one was particularly fun since last year I'd tried to learn some Chinese and had gotten to visit Shanghai.  It's a story about a Chinese man who is married with a young child.  He grew up in the US, but moved to China when he was 10 and forgot most of his English.  When he is injured in an explosion, he is diagnosed with bilingual Broca's aphasia, which means in his case, he has lost his ability to speak or read Chinese (though he understands it), and can only communicate (and then with difficulty both due to the aphasia and due to the fact he only knew some English) haltingly in English.  A doctor from the US is brought in to help him attempt to recover his Chinese.  The doctor character was insanely irritating and stereotypical, but the book was good despite her. 

Lean In:  Women, Work, and the Will to Lead by Sheryl Sandberg.  Nonfiction, about 175 pages.  This book got a lot of press in 2013 and was my choice for book club.  I ended up loving it.  Sex and gender issues have always been interesting to me, particularly the pay gap, and particularly about differences between the sexes in high-earning fields.  Of course there are so many factors in the pay gap, starting early with how parents and teachers treat children of opposite sexes, and then self-selection choices throughout life, frequently driving women to choose lower earning professions in general, as well as antiquated stereotypes about sex roles in the home (raising children, doing work related to the household).  I may be unique in that many of my married female friends are the primary breadwinner in their relationships (keep in mind, a lot of my friends are other attorneys).  So when it's not a dual-attorney couple (I have plenty of them among my friends too), when they have children, their husbands stay home.  Several of my best friends with kids (including my godson's parents) have the husband doing most of the child-rearing.  While we don't have kids, I'm a big stickler for equal contributions in terms of time to running our household since we both work full-time.  Fortunately, my husband is on board with that -- I think I'd be miserable married to someone who expected me to do the bulk of the household stuff just because I'm female.  In fact, I never would have married that guy!  But the book has made me think a lot about these interesting issues.  And one of the books less central points about the importance of mentor relationships at work has really sunk in with me.  While my direct supervisor is male, since I finished this book, I've made more of an effort to ask him career direction advice, and I want to continue to do that.  The importance of having a mentor, etc. 

Joseph Anton:  A Memoir by Salman Rushdie.  Nonfiction, about 650 pages.  What a book.  Not sure even what to say about it.  If you've ever watched Friends and remember the book of grievances, I bet this book will trigger a flashback.  In many ways, Rushdie/Anton came across as egomaniacal and self-absorbed.  It's the story of his life after The Satanic Verses was published and the fatwah or death warrant was issued.  Joseph Anton was the pseudonym under which he lived in fear of his life.  Of course it's an interesting story, particularly when you think about the importance of freedom of speech, religious freedom, and the role of literature in the world.  And the first few years of living under the fatwah was interesting, but then it all got to be too much.  There was a lot of recapping all the press about him (did I mention he came acorss as very self-absorbed?), a list of all the awards he's received, reiterating everything he's ever heard praising him or his books.  He just struck me as very full of himself.  For anyone who watches The Bachelor, he was kind of a fame whore -- actually, I think there are probably fewer than 100 people in the world who both watch The Bachelor regularly and have read Joseph Anton.  Haha.  I'm unique!  Anyway, he's a big name dropper.  And he seemed very old when he was essentially just making a list of people he knew/knows who had gotten cancer.  I know several older people who occasionally do that -- just a big list of all the people with cancer.  Anyway, I did not like Joseph Anton at all.  I can't believe I stuck with it for that many pages.  BUT... I've never read The Satanic Verses (as he explains it, there truly never was any anti-Muslim intent), and I've never read Haroun and the Sea of Stories, two of Rushdie's books that Joseph Anton made me want to read. 

Bossypants by Tina Fey.  Nonfiction, about 275 pages.  I liked it more than I thought I would.  The nuances of being a woman in comedy, or any comedian attempting to get a break, aren't things I'd ever really considered.  And I don't watch 30 Rock, but I certainly enjoyed some of Fey's SNL sketches.  Best line of the book (in reference to dating within your workplace):  "Remember, when you work in what is basically a cage that you're not allowed to leave, your choices are limited to what strolls by."

Olive Kitteridge by Elizabeth Strout.  Fiction, about 275 pages.  A collection of short stories, all with the character of Olive Kitteridge, a woman approximately in her 60s, in the story in some way.  This was a book club selection.  It was good, but not one that I'll go back to read again. 

The Onion's Book of Known Knowledge.  Fiction, about 250 pages.  Awful.  My second "alphabetical list" book of the year and perhaps an even bigger flop.  I think a total of 4 of the entries made me laugh out loud:  401k, Socrates, Table, and Toast (hmm, 3 of the 4 were late in the book, maybe it started to grow on me?).  Because I read The Onion loyally weekly for YEARS, I expected so much more.  Seriously, there have been several stories on the Onion that I still reference about a decade after I read them (adding the fifth blade to the razor is perhaps my favorite).  And I own (and love) another Onion book, Our Dumb Century (I actually have it within arm's reach in my office).  But this one just bombed in my opinon.  Ugh.  Give me back my life.  I can't believe I bothered to finish it, but I will say it was quick. 

Easy Company Soldier by Don Malarkey.  Nonfiction, about 300 pages.  Several men involved in Easy Company have written their stories, and this was just as good as the others I've read.  While he seemed to be bragging at times, he certainly deserves to!  Currahee, Normandy, Bastogne.  I don't think it's the best of the first-hand accounts, but it's worth reading and always good to hear another person's take on the war of the (last) century. 

Running with the Kenyans:  Discovering the Secrets of the Fastest People on Earth by Adharanand Finn.  Nonfiction, about 300 pages.  A strong but recreational runner (38 minute 10k if I remember correctly) decides to move with his family (wife and little kids) to Kenya to see if he can get to the bottom of why Kenya produces many of the best runners in the world.  While the common belief (at least among non-runners) of it being genetic has been discounted, it's very interesting as he considers the many other plausible explanations (and he does go through genetics as well).  Barefoot running, eating ugali, the importance of rest, training v. racing paces, the derth of other profitable options, the elevation, .  This isn't the kind of book you'd read in hopes of learning the secrets, but there were several take-aways that I found interesting and can apply to my own running.  While Finn lives in Kenya, he travels, he meets many former winners, current elites, and future winners, and he puts together a racing team to compete in a marathon.  And yes, his own times improve too.  I also enjoyed the non-running aspect regarding life in Kenya.  It's my favorite place in Africa though I haven't travelled much there, but I'd love to go back.  He doesn't include many pictures (basically one at the beginning of each chapter); I wished there were more. 

Night Film by M Priezl.  Fiction, about 600 pages.  Read almost all of this in Italy while we were on vacation because I wanted to leave it for hubby's counsin who speaks English.  Book was bizarre, but pretty good for a mindless read. 

This Land Is Their Land by Barbara Ehrenreich.  Nonfiction, about 250 pages.  Typical Ehrenreich, which meant I liked it.  About wealth inequality in America.  So good that I made my husband read it too.  While we consider ourselves to be certainly financially comfortable, we're definitely not close to the uber-rich, and I found it interesting to make myself think about what this wealth gap means for the poorest of the poor.  Not a comfortable book to read, but of course that's what means more people should read it.  But of course as a "have" there were some things in the book I'd argue weren't true, but it made me think and her point is quite valid. 

The Information:  A History, A Theory, A Flood by James Gleick.  Nonfiction, about 550 pages.  Both interesting and dry at the same time.  It draws on lots of different subjects -- particularly (in order of emphasis based on my reading):  English, math, computer science, science, foreign language.  The book made me google things like "why is the alphabet in the order it is?" (and really, why??? why can't it be X, E, A, K, P, D...?), and "what is the least integer not nameable in fewer than nineteen syllables?" (Berry's paradox -- because "the least integer not nameable in fewer than nineteen syllables" is 111,777, but technically, the phrase describing it, "the least integer not nameable in fewer than nineteen syllables" is only 18 syllables!).  Overall, I liked it, but that's because I'm a nerd.  I'm not sure to whom I'd actually recommend this book. 

And I have two books that are presently "in progress" that I am counting toward my total as being finished (though there is a chance I'm giving up on Crazy Rich): 

Crazy Rich: Power, Scandal, and Tragedy Inside the Johnson & Johnson Dynasty by Jerry Oppenheimer.  Nonfiction, about 475 pages.  I was so excited to read this, but after a while, it got old -- it became a cross between stories being told more than once (overlapping), or it just all sounding the same.  The family has a lot of dysfunciton, tragedy and sadness in general.  Bottom line:  mo' money, mo' problems -- a good reminder for all of us I suppose.  To be honest, I'm only on about chapter 27 as I write this.  It may be the one and only book of the year I do not finish. 

Dear Life by Alice Munro.  Fiction, about 300 pages.  This was a book club selection of short stories.  Overall, pretty sad.  Not my favorite book by her.  It pinpoints moments where people's lives change, generally for the worse. 

Tuesday, January 7, 2014

2013 Resolutions in Review -- A pass/fail test

Another year over, a new one just begun....

I've liked making resolutions for as long as I can remember.  There's something about it that soothes the part of me that likes to set goals, look ahead, etc. 

If you're interested in the background of my 2013 resolutions:
the original resolutions,
an early March progress update,
a mid-year progress update.

12 resolutions, roughly in order of priority.

1. Hardest effort ever at a couple months of speed training, then hardest effort ever training for an early fall marathon. The idea is that this work will lead me to a marathon PR by 11 minutes and 30 seconds in Berlin in late September. PASS (with an asterisk).   Technically, my resolution was hardest effort -- pass.  But as to the 11:30 PR at the marathon -- fail.  I worked with a speed coach until the end of April, and did marathon training from mid-May until the end of September.  I will say that I did the runs on the schedule.  I sometimes fell short on pacing, but I put in my hardest effort to date.  I toed the line in Berlin with 814.8 miles under my belt from the 19 weeks of training leading up to the race.  The most I've ever had in a training season for a single race. 

2. Cook at least 52 real dinners from recipes.  PASS (with an asterisk). I posted updates on this resolution about the first 30 recipes I cooked, and I think I have another post among my drafts that I never finished with another list of 10.  But even without the documentary evidence, I think I succeeded.  And if I missed by a few meals, I'm going to go ahead and say it's close enough for government work.  The idea was to cook more and it worked.  I was irritated that my resolution related to dinners.  I definitely made several breakfasts, lunches, and desserts from recipes as well.  If those counted, I'd be over 52 for certain. 

3. Quit Facebook. Not actual facebook suicide, I'm leaving the profile up, and I may log in on weekends to check for messages and/or invitations, and I'll probably check if I'm tagged in a photo by someone else just to make sure it's not horrifying, but no more daily reading what's going on with friends.  PASS. I logged on about sporadically to get email addresses and to respond to a couple personal messages, but at some point, I was out of town and I couldn't pull up my electronic boarding pass because I needed to upgrade the operating system on my iphone.  I did that and it logged me out of facebook and then I couldn't remember my password, so I legitimately stayed completely off for months.  This past weekend, I signed back on, accepted about a dozen friend requests, and posted a status about my hiatus being over.  But I'm thinking I'll spend less time on it in the future.  I did spend more time on my phone playing sudoku and looking at Pinterest in 2013, but the resolution related only to FB -- time will tell how this shakes out in 2014 resolutions!  

4. New to me country (a repeat resolution, since I'm not sure I really achieved this in 2012). If all goes as I hope, the new country will be Lichtenstein, and that will be on about October 4.  PASS. I went to Lichtenstein in October.  It was not terribly exciting, but I was there.  The food struck me as expensive.

5. Study Italian at least once a week and attend an Italian conversation class regularly.  FAIL. I attended a conversation class frequently, but I almost never studied on my own, which was what I need to do most.  I survived when we were in Italy, and it really didn't matter too much since my husband's family speaks dialect instead of Italian (at least the older relatives).  I wish I'd done better at this, and I will need to focus more on this in 2015, which I expect will be our next trip to Italy (barring a death in his family) (ugh, why did that thought come into my head???). 

6. Weight management. Right now I'm sitting just over the halfway point of the 10 pound range where I've hovered for the last few years. I want to get to the bottom half, ideally the bottom, and stay there. FAIL. As of the Berlin marathon, I was comfortably in the bottom half of the range.  In fact, I spent much of the year there.  But the last few months of the year have seen me back in the top half of that range.  Ugh.  This may have to be a higher priority in 2014 because I am not content with where I am right now. 

7. Entertain at home at least 6 times, at least 3 times included people who haven't ever come over for dinner before.  PASS. We had exactly six dinner parties, four of which included people we hadn't invited over before. Among others, we had our traditional "rehearsal dinner anniversary" make-your-own pizza party, a blueberry-themed dinner for our local version of the blueberry festival that we didn't attend this year, and a German-themed dinner with several friends who were also running the marathon in Berlin.  One strange pairing was a night we planned to have an unmarried neighbor over alone.  One of hubby's co-workers called that night to see if hubby could meet him for a drink -- he was going through some hard personal times.  Instead, we invited him to join us for dinner in half an hour.  We thought it might be weird considering the two guests seemed to have nothing in common, but to our great surprise, they COMPLETELY hit it off (in a non-romantic sense, which was actually good since part of his personal turmoil includes a divorce).  But even on random things that we had no ability to discuss (folk musicians?!), they gabbed away together happily.  It made me smile.  We also had our next door neighbors over, which barely counts since we love them so much and spend a lot of time with them in general, but I planned a menu and they joined us, so I am counting it.   We also had my husband's boss and one of my former co-workers and her husband over, which was fun but challenging because I'm a vegetarian and husband's boss's wife is no dairy...  I also hosted book club and various friends for breakfasts, but I didn't count those since we weren't entertaining as a couple. 

8. Finish our wedding scrapbook.  FAIL. I have the scrapbook sitting out in plain view in the living room, but it's still only about 60% complete. And we've now been married more than four years. Sigh.  This needs to make the 2014 resolution list so it's done before we get to our five year anniversary. 

9. Less procrastination at work. The three big areas where I drag my feet are voicemails, reports, and reviewing records. I need to check voicemail at least once a week (we have a log, so I can see who is calling, so I answer the calls I want, and let the "ugh" ones go to voicemail, then I suck at checking messages). I need to do initial case reports within 3 weeks of it hitting my desk (for most my cases, it's actually easier to do it sooner, rather than later, because the later I wait, the more information I have that I need to include). I need to review records within 60 days of receipt (I sometimes let "not urgent" stacks sit for way too many months).  PASS.   I was totally on the ball with voicemail and reports.  Records review was a bit tougher, but I think I did better than I have before, so that's progress.  The reports became easier because I mounted a big whiteboard in my office on which I track my 10 or so cases that have rolling reporting deadlines every 3 months.  This resolution was really the only thing that pushed me on voicemail.  I hated it, but I did it. 

10. Update our stairwell photos through the end of 2012. The stairs between our first and second floors on one wall are full of photos of the two of us beginning with our very first photo together, and presently ending in Sweden in 2010.  NO GRADE ASSIGNED (if I have to choose:  FAIL). I chose and ordered photos beginning with Russia in 2010 and ending with China in 2012. Then I went to an Ikea in a BFE suburb to get the frames, but they didn't sell them anymore. So I tried another Ikea near Austin, and no frames there either. So I bought similar frames in a different color and I have put all my photos with my law school roommate (on the other side of our stairwell) into those new frames, and I have used those original frames to frame updated pics of me and hubby. AND I've hung several photos so "our" wall goes up to April 2012, but now I'm stuck.  I have 15 photos left in matching frames that I need to hang, but no more room on the wall.   I could go to using the "law school roommate" wall, but again, I only have 15 matching frames left and I can't even find more online.  This resolution ended up being quite a mess and it remains unresolved.

11. Sunday organizing time. I need to set aside at least one hour every Sunday before 6:00 p.m. to prepare for the coming week -- that means making my lunches in advance (with the current running commute plan, I have to bring Mon-Thurs lunches on Monday), planning my outfits (including shoes and jewelry), packing my outfits (including laundry bags), and pulling together any "other" stuff to bring to the office on Monday (usually bills that need to be paid, greeting cards that need to be mailed, etc.).  FAIL.  Some weeks I'd prepare my week's outfits and/or lunches on Sundays, occasionally both, but I still ended up with too much to do on most Monday mornings.     

12. Regular non-drive commute to work.  PASS. I ran to or from work over 100 times in 2013.  As of late September, I'd run 78% of my possible commutes.  I didn't count Mondays as possible since I needed to bring my laptop and clothes, and then I had to get my car back home.  And I didn't count Thursday nights since I had to take my laptop back home where I work on Fridays.  That left 5 possible commutes per week.  And on average, I did almost 4 of the 5 per week until we flew to Europe on Sept. 25.  Sadly, we came back from Europe during the second half of October, and the commuting on foot pretty much ground to a halt.  We were in California for another week toward the end of the year, and I travelled a lot for work in November and December, but even when we were in town, I just didn't do it very often.  Only a handful of other times.  I was just plain lazy and out of shape.  But prior to the end of September, I rarely skipped a commute because I was lazy or didn't like the weather -- it was usually because I had an evening commitment that I felt was really important -- volunteering, an alumni event, or a work dinner.  I am very content with the way this worked out. 

So that's it, my 2013 resolutions review.  Since they were weighted by priority, it's misleading to say I got a pass on 7 of them (with 2 asterisks).  And in reality, resolution 12 (commuting on foot) was a huge change that took up a lot of my time -- I wish I'd assigned it a higher priority. 

In retrospect, the first four resolutions meant the most to me, and I gave myself a pass on all 4 of them (with 2 asterisks). 

All in all, a pretty solid year.  I'll take it! 

Monday, January 6, 2014

FMM: 2014 edition

I haven't been in a writing mood lately.  I'm still pondering my 2014 resolutions, and need to do a recap of how 2013 stacked up. 

But particularly when I don't like deciding what to write, Friend Making Mondays are good at getting me to write SOMETHING. 

If you’ve taken part in FMM then you know the rules. If you’re new, please take a moment to answer this week’s question on your own blog then add your link in the comments section here at: www.alltheweigh.com so we can all see your FMM questions and answers. Please invite your blog readers to add their links here too so everyone has to opportunity to be seen. The idea is to connect with other awesome bloggers so take a moment to post your own FMM post and comment on a couple of other posts. Now it’s time for this week’s topic!

friend makin mondays
Friend Makin’ Mondays
 
1. What has been your happiest moment in 2014 so far?  While New Year's Eve was the most fun it's been in years, and while I had a great reunion yesterday morning with my running buddies, the best was definitely Friday night.  Hubby was busy at work all day Friday, and I was too, but we had 8 people coming over for dinner.  As such, since I was working from home, it was totally up to me to get everything cooked and the house ready.  While the cake was undercooked, the evening was a smashing success.  We had so much fun seeing this group of friends that gets together far too infrequently. 

2. Share the last compliment you received.  Not sure, husband usually tells me I look pretty or sexy or cute most days.  The last concrete one I remember was last night when he was (finally!) washing dishes from Friday night's dinner party, he was complimenting my cooking, which means a lot to me. 

3. What is one thing that you plan to accomplish in the next week? I have one of my few "big" weeks at work this week.  Pre-conference call call is today, and the actually call is set for Wed.  I plan to kick butt on presenting my cases on both calls! 

4. What is your favorite TV show currently on air? The Bachelor, new season started last night with a preview show and actually starts tonight. 

5. If you could go anywhere in the world free for the next two weeks, where you go?  I'm going to choose a variety of islands in the Pacific.  I'd like to hop between Bora Bora and Iwo Jima and many places in between, getting a good mix of spectacularly beautiful island relaxation and some war history. 

6. Describe a significant event in your life that caused you to change your values system.  I think my values have been pretty consistent my whole life.  Having family members die and getting married have probably been the two biggest changes. 

7. What made you decide to live where you currently live?  The weather.  I went to a top ten law school, so everyone in the class (well, at least not at the bottom of the class, but maybe them too), really got to choose where in the country they wanted to go.  I wanted a big city that was warm but definitely not in California or Florida.  I ended up looking at Houston (which I hated), Dallas and Atlanta.  And I think Atlanta would have been fine, I just liked Dallas.

8. What is the first thing that comes to mind when you think about GOD? I guess I think about giong to church. 

9. If you could have a long conversation with someone famous (and alive now) who would you choose?  Meb Keflezieghi.  He's been my running idol for a long time, and while I've met him and talked to him, it wasn't a long conversation. 

10. List three things that you’re thankful for today.
  • Heat!  It's record-cold here so this morning's boot camp was indoors but still nice to come home to warmth.
  • My new blender (got it for Christmas) made me enjoy making my breakfast smoothie today. 
  • My job.  This week is going to be busy and it's important that I'm "on" but having just done a first look at our taxes and our vacation plans for 2014, I can't help but be grateful for something that challenges me intellectually, where I feel like I'm doing something important, that enables me to work with good people, and that pays me well! 
 Now it’s your turn to answer this week’s questions on your blog. Don’t forget to come back and link up in the comments.  Happy Monday, and Happy New Year!

Tuesday, December 31, 2013

2013 Year In Review

I did this post last year and really enjoyed writing it, so I decided I'd tackle the same "year in review" questions this year.

I originally found this "year in review" list on a blog called brie-fit.com, and she said she'd copied it from "Temerity Jane via Sundry". Anyway, I thought it would be a fun way to look back on 2013.

1. What did you do in 2013 that you’d never done before?

I won our local beer mile.  Twice.
I went to Liechtenstein.
I went on a gondola ride in Venice.

2. Did you keep your new year’s resolutions, and will you make more for next year?

I'm going to again do a resolutions recap. Overall, I'm happy with how I did.

3. Did anyone close to you give birth?

The guy who was my platonic travel buddy for years (together, we've gone to Kenya, Hong Kong, Singapore, Malaysia, Thailand and Indonesia, and of course Italy, when he came to our wedding) got married a few years ago and they had a baby very recently.  We're actually spending New Year's Eve tonight with them, so we'll get to meet their little guy. 

4. Did anyone close to you die?

No, thankfully. My grandpa unfortunately had a stroke this summer and now has a live-in nurse and a feeding tube and can't do much with the right side of his body.  You can tell it's very frustrating for him.  It's hard to understand him, but when he talks, he mentions how unhappy he is, how his savings are being spent on the nurse, how much you need two arms for things, etc.  I'm glad he's still with us, but his quality of life has changed drastically, which is sad

5. What countries did you visit?

Germany, Austria, Switzerland, Liechtenstein, Italia, Netherlands.

6. What would you like to have in 2014 that you lacked in 2013?

My goal marathon time and a winning lottery ticket.

7. What dates from 2013 will remain etched upon your memory, and why?

September 29, 2013, the date of my marathon PR in Berlin.

8. What was your biggest achievement of the year?

Probably running-related, but I can't decide if it's the marathon PR or the beer mile win (and successfully defending the title).  Probably the marathon PR.   

9. What was your biggest failure?

Not getting my marathon goal time.  At mile 16, I wanted to slow down, and by mile 18, I gave in to that.  Due to a tragic combination of a satellite malfunction and a lack of knowledge of the metric system, I also ended up missing my "B" goal.  

10. Did you suffer illness or injury?

Nothing serious, thank goodness.   I'm having some foot pain right now, possibly from 28 miles on a treadmill on two days within a three day span.  Of course I can't get in to see an ortho this week, but I am fairly certain its some tendon inflammation.  I ended up resting it this morning, the first year I haven't done my traditional New Year's Eve loop of the lake in more years than I can count.   

11. What was the best thing you bought?

Best money spent was probably the gondola ride in Venice.  I didn't keep track if that was "my" money or "hubby's" money.  But after having been to Venice a couple times and not being there with the love of my life (hadn't met him yet), I saw people on gondolas.  Of course I could have gone alone or with friends, but it was something I wanted to save.  I wanted to kiss someone as we went under every single bridge.  I wanted to hold hands and ooh and aah together.  It was everything I dreamed of! 

12. Where did most of your money go?

Good question!  Since my husband and I alternate paying for big trips, he paid for the 2013 trip for the most part.  I guess I spent most of my money on debt reduction.  I've gotten really into the idea of making extra mortgage payments.  I like knowing that if something happened to me, my husband could take his time sorting things out and he wouldn't miss any payments.  Plus obviously paying even a bit more on a massive debt like a house can make a big dent in how long you pay.  I've heard (and believe) that if you have a 30 year mortgage and you make one extra principal and interest payment per year, you end up being done in 23 years.  That's huge! 

13. What did you get really excited about?

The trip to Europe. 

14. What song will always remind you of 2013?

"Blurred Lines" -- my husband told me it was "the song of the summer" before either of us had heard it.  Second choice is "Roar", but that's an answer to a question below. 

15. Compared to this time last year, are you:

– happier or sadder? About the same, which is to say very happy.
– thinner or fatter? Fatter by about 5 pounds!  The last couple months haven't been good!! 
– richer or poorer? Richer.

16. What do you wish you’d done more of?

Organizing, cleaning and purging around the house (same answer as last year...).

17. What do you wish you’d done less of?

Eating!  Particularly in the last couple months.  My clothes are far too tight right now. 

18. How did you spend Christmas?

Home! Meaning at my parents' house in Wisconsin again.  Traditional Christmas Eve having dinner at home, then going for carols and church. This was the first year that my baby brother's wife was with us, which was fun.  Christmas morning presents, brunch, then organizing and packing, a long 5 hour drive to Milwaukee, and then another family Christmas with lots of excitement for my nieces and nephew.

19. What was your favorite TV program?

House of Cards, by far.  My boss loved and recommended it. It did not sound like something I'd enjoy, but by the second or third episode, I was totally hooked. 

20. What were your favorite books of the year?

I am going to post a separate list of what I read in 2013, but as I looked over where that draft post currently stands (I want to finish a couple in progress books before posting), I think my favorite was actually Lean In.  I would highly urge all people, not just women, to read it and think about it. 

21. What was your favorite music from this year?

I'm not a big music person, so this is hard to answer.  I guess pop/hip hop stuff that is good for running, boot camp, or just being in the gym.   Every time I hear that "Roar" song, I feel inspired and want to run faster and work harder. 

22. What were your favorite films of the year?

The Secret Life of Walter Mitty, which we saw just a couple days ago.  I don't feel like we saw a lot of movies and actually can't think of anything else that we saw! 

23. What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you?

I'm knocking on 40's door now.  I ended up working late, going out for pizza with my husband to one of my favorite pizza places (Fireside Pies, which he definitely does not love as a pizza snob).  One of the highlights was eating the three mini-bundt cakes that my accounting buddy gave me. 

24. What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying?

If I'd run the Berlin marathon about 10 minutes faster than I did. 

25. How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2013?

More of the same. I don't buy lots of new clothes.  I wore a lot of scarves and (embarrassing) I wore better bras that made a freezing cold office less evident...

26. What kept you sane?

A combination of a white board in my office and our diary system at work that lets me set reminders for when things need to be done on cases.   Having my major cases and deadlines on the dry erase board, coupled with checking my diary entries meant that I felt very on the ball at work.  I'm so happy to feel like I'm more in control.  It was one of my best resolutions (to not drag my feet on things like checking voicemail) and it really paid off in that I had far fewer "work freak out" dreams and generally met my deadlines (which are soft and internal, and therefore very easy to blow off, even though I shouldn't). 

27. Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2013.

I won't be healthy and active forever, so I should appreciate it now.